第113課: 呼称: ~さん, ~さあ, Etc.

  In our first step into the world of 敬語 (honorific speech), the first thing to learn about are a handful of small affixes used to embellish names and titles called 呼称こしょう. You've already been acquainted with the majority of them already, so they should be recognizable to you. 

  A lot can be said about each and everyone in existence, but for the ones that particularly matter to honorific speech, leaving them out (呼びて) can be drastically bad. Especially in 上上下関係(じょうげかんけい) (superior-inferior relations), 呼び捨て would only be forgivable if drunk. Because we are entering the realm of honorific speech, using polite 呼称 when you should be casual is also just as bad. 

呼称

     呼称 are suffixes similar to Mr. and Mrs., but aren't, unless stated, gender specific. They are suffixes added to titles or names. Like we've seen, some titles don't need them. Pay close attention to when these endings are used and for whom. 

Analysis

       We need context to know the extent 呼称 are used. There are so many niches that one could be a part in that no single person, including natives, could tell you authoritatively every single situation these endings can be used in. Luckily, however, you can get the gist of how they're used and see for yourself how they're used. 

  There are a few ground rules, however. First, you must never directly use them to refer to oneself. Two, you must never use more than one to refer to a single person in the same sentence.

1. わたしは金子さんです。X
  わたしは金子です。
    I am Kaneko (surname).

2. 店員さんは裕子さんですよ。X
  店員の人は裕子さんですよ。
    The clerk is Yuuko-san.  


 ~さん

Let's begin with ~さん. ~さん is generally attached to the name of a person or group to show a light respect or familiarity. This is why it's used with one's equal. You may hear 大工さん said to a carpenter., especially in situations where the name of the individual is not known. Thus, in respect to the individual and the group he/she is a part in, the actual name is replaced with the name of the group/occupation that individual is a part of.

2. もしもし、加藤さんのお宅ですか。  
    Hello, is this the Kato residence? 

 ~さん comes from a construction of ~さま, which is why it doesn't show as much respect. You can hear it in set phrases such as:

3. お待ちどおさん
    Thank you for waiting; I'm sorry to have kept you waiting.

     In phrases like this, though, ~さま is more common except in certain places in Japan.

   Again, ~さん may be attached to someone's workplace to refer to workers. So, if you walk into a electric appliance store, you may refer to the clerk as 電気屋さん. Other examples of this include 本屋さん, 八百屋さん, etc. Businesses may also refer to each other in the same fashion. Even married couples sometimes refer to each other with ~さん, but this might not be a good thing. Also, s becomes h in many words in some regions of Japan. So, it can also be rendered as ~はん. 


~ちゃん

     ~ちゃん is a diminutive of ~さん, and should be treated as one. It shows affection and endearment. In general, ちゃん is used for infants, pets, children, grandparents teenage girls, lovers, close friend, and youthful women. When used for males, it is usually condescending or intimate. Tone of voice places a great role in interpretation. 


 ~坊

  ~坊 may be after a boy's name to show affection, but it is also placed after the alias of a monk.


 ~さま

     ~さま, again, is much more respectful than ~さん. It can be applied to basically anything ~さん came, but the affect is different. ~さま can be seen after おれ to refer to oneself in a very haughty manner. 

4. スミス様
   Mr. Smith

5. 先生様 X → 先生

6. 神様 
    God

7. 天皇様  △   → 天皇陛下  
  Emperor 

8. 王様
   King

Word Note: It's important to note that 天皇様 is a questionable phrase in the grey zone with most Japanese speakers thinking it is inappropriate for similar reasons why 王様 is actually found to be somewhat kiddish. This is probably because ~様 through hyperbole weakening in honorific meaning for these instances.  

9. 巡査じゅんさ順子じゅんこのことをいたが、これは宿帳やどちょうに彼女の名前がないからだった。「外一名様ほかいちめいさま」とあるだけである。

The police offer asked about Junko, but this was because her name wasn't in the guest book. It only said, "one other person."

Word Note: 外一名様 is occasionally used to refer to another person anonymously for which mention is necessary out of respect. However, many people nowadays take offense to the term. Sometimes, organizations now send out explanations to their addresses whenever the terminology is implemented to seek understanding. Part of this is due to it falling out of use, but another issue is people now generally expect all persons of interest, especially when there aren't that many to begin with, to be listed out individually. Of course, there are real world instances in which pinpointing even a small number of people specifically is difficult. Nevertheless, in the context of this line, the guest book keeper was correct in using it.  


 ~君

     ~君 used to be similar to ~の君(きみ). ~の君 refers to Lords, etc. Now, ~君 is used to address males juniors. Females may also use it towards males affectionately. With close personal friends and family, gender restrictions are removed. In business men may refer to young employees of either gender with ~君. This works the same way in a classroom. In the Japanese legislature chairpersons address members with ~君.

10. 黒木君はどこにいるの?
    Where's Kuroki?

11. 親友しんゆう次郎君じろうくん
       
My best friend Jiro


 ~殿

Although literally meaning "Lord", it is used a lot in official documents seen after names or after an organization, department, etc.

12. 原子力委員会殿

This has seen its better days, but it is still important in the realm of 敬語.One rule of thumb about this ending is although it is quite similar to ~様, it must never be used in reference to people above you. When you are referring to a superior by name, you will use his/her surname + ~様, not ~殿. This has been the case for a very long time, well before many other aspects of modern 敬語 came to being. When you are referring to a managerial position rather than a personal name, ~殿 will likely be your friend. All of this, however, is about the written language. ~殿 does not get used in normal conversation. If you hear it in anime, it's because the speaker is purposely speaking in a neo-classical fashion.

13. 〇〇部長殿   
Department Chairman xx 

Luckily, for when you are address a group of people, 御中, which is read as おんちゅう, and 各位 are perfect あて名.The former is used in documents addressed to schools, companies, company offices, groups, and organizations. 各位 is used as a header to a letter, but as an addressee, it can be used when sending something to each person without having to say every single name. There is no need to say 各位様 or 各位殿.


 ~氏

~氏 is used to reference someone in the third person in the written language or usages of speech akin to the written language such as news reports and the like. 


Others

閣下: This word is realistically only used in two instances. One, you will see it in the official means of addressing heads of state or dignitaries by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Japan. For Japanese heads of state, the word is never used. However, fore foreign figures, it follows the full name of the country followed by the full name of the person in question. For instance, the soon to be former president of Italy would be referred to as "イタリア共和国大統領ジョルジョ・ナポリターノ閣下."

  Aside from being used to refer to foreign emissaries and dignitaries, it has been used in the realm of translating foreign literature for instances of "excellency." For instance, you may find "your honor" in a courtroom-sense translated as "判事閣下." However, because it has been relegated to very official circumstances, even this would be replaced with what's actually used nowadays, "裁判官." There are also other military/lordship titles that it may refer to, but these are all so specialized that the only use they would serve is if you were to read a novel in which they appear. At which, all you would need to know is that its purpose is being a very honorific title.  

陛下: This word is reserved for the Imperial Family of Japan. Of course, you will also hear it employed for the same purpose for imperial members of other nations (even fictional places).

14.天皇皇后両陛下
   Their Majesties the Emperor and Empress 

婦人: This word used to go after surnames to refer to the Mrs. of the household. However, due to concerns of sexism, words with 婦 are becoming less common. As such, although 婦人 would have been commonly used fifty years ago, that is no longer the case.

15. 中村婦人         
     Mrs. Nakamura

夫人: This word is used to mean "Mrs." and is still frequently used. Despite being homophonous with 婦人, due to the difference in characters used, it has not died out just yet.

16. 加藤夫人はどちらに行かれたのか教えてください。
    Please tell me where Mrs. Kato went.  

嬢: This is seldom used after the name of unmarried women, but it can also be more frequently found in certain occupation terms and set phrases. As お嬢さん, it is still an appropriate and respectful way of referring to a young lady. In other instances, however, the same can't be quite said.

17. 裕子はもともとキャバ嬢として働いてたよ。
    Yuuko used to work as a hostess. 

卿: This is a very rare honorific used to refer to aristocracy. It is now relegated to historical/classical references. 

18. アーサー卿は収入のほとんどを荘園の維持費にしていたといわれています。
  It is said that Lord Arthur used most of his income in the maintenance of his gardens. 


 Honorable Mentions

 ~嬢 ~じょう Seldom used after the name of an unmarried woman. 
 ~はん ~はん Kansai variant of ~さん.
 ~たん ~たん Extreme slang form of ~ちゃん.
 ~ちん ~ちん Yet another slang derivation that came from ~たん.
 ~ぽん ~ぽん Used in jokes as a silly variant of ~さん.